As Valentine’s Day approaches, many couples are planning the perfect romantic date night with their significant other. Whether it’s a candlelight dinner in-person or a little bit of Netflix and…
Labels change, but feelings persist
a·ro·man·ti·cism /āˈ/rōˈman(t)əˌsizəm/ An orientation in which someone does not experience romantic attraction. them.us Aromanticism as a label is relatively new in its existence—and it was born purely out…
Up here, down there: exploring trans sex
Trans sex is a topic that many seem to avoid in conversation because it includes talking about not only sex and how to have it, but also the many variables…
Jorielle Livingston
I chose to talk and do a photoshoot with my friend Jorielle Livingston because I, a cis man, have so much to learn from her about being transgender. It was…
A materialist history of Valentine’s Day
As Valentine’s Day approaches yet again, the familiar accoutrements appear as well: fancy chocolates in fancy heart-shaped boxes, valentine cards bought from either a boutique stationery store or a supermarket…
How to make a good mix
At the risk of sounding like a Nick Hornby character, creating a mix for someone is a delicate task. It has to be eclectic, but you also want to cater…
Valentine’s Day can be shitty for queer couples
Valentine’s Day tends to garner a reaction like no other holiday. Whether it’s excitement about the opportunity to remind your significant other how much they mean to you, or feelings…
Love in the time of Tumblr
In 2013, I was a mere 17 years old. I was also an avid Tumblr user, as were many of many of my peers in those days. This was the…
Portland hosts its fifth Winter Light Festival
The fifth anniversary of Portland’s Winter Light Festival was a shining success as residents flocked to the East and West waterfronts to enjoy the city’s festivities. On each day of…
Love and Food: Sexy Snacks
THE BOARD Wood or slate looks the best, but any flat surface will do. Just make sure it’s not the cutting board you use to cut raw meat cuz…
Love and Food: cheap Lo-fi hip hop anime foods to eat and relax to
Rosemary Lemon Chicken with Greens For the chicken: 1 chicken breast or two thighs Salt and pepper Vegetable and olive oil 2 Tablespoons butter or Olive oil 1 Shallot,…